How do you not get awkward during a Brazilian wax?

Author: Federico Purdy  |  Last update: Monday, September 29, 2025

Physical Tips Let your waxer know how you are feeling and if it is your first wax. They are used to new clients with pre-wax jitters and should act accordingly. They should take extra steps to keep you reassured throughout the process and checking in with you during the service.

How embarrassing is it to get a Brazilian wax?

No, it's normal. Just like any other personal grooming procedure, getting a Brazilian wax may initially feel a bit awkward due to the intimate nature of the treatment. However, it is a common and widely accepted practice, so there's no need to feel embarrassed or self-conscious.

Is it weird to get hard during a Brazilian wax?

It's definitely not uncommon for men to get an erection during service and clean up(As well as precum). I let my clients take breaks if need be. I try talking about other topics to keep the mind busy(helps with pain too). If your waxer is a professional then you'll be just fine.

Does Brazilian wax include inner lips?

Yes, a Brazilian wax does include the inner lips. After doing a Brazilian wax ourselves, we can confirm that a true Brazilian wax aims to remove all hair from the front, back, and everything in between. This includes the more delicate areas like the inner lips.

How to not be nervous for a Brazilian wax?

To calm nerves before a Brazilian wax, exfoliate, take ibuprofen, hydrate, avoid caffeine, wear loose clothes, and book with an experienced esthetician. Practice deep breathing, listen to calming music, bring a stress ball, and know the pain subsides quickly.

Is getting a Brazilian wax awkward?

How to make a Brazilian wax less awkward?

During The Wax:
  1. Hold onto a stress ball.
  2. Take music to listen to.
  3. Watch something on your phone. ...
  4. Chew gum. ...
  5. Chat to your waxer. ...
  6. Ask your waxer to do a small area first so you can get used to the process (The warm wax application, the sensation of a few hairs being removed then the cooling after-lotion)

Why can't you have oral after Brazilian wax?

Kopelman said it's perfectly fine to give your skin more time to heal. And yes, this waiting period applies to oral sex, too. Your partner's skin, facial hair, or even slight stubble can irritate your sensitive, freshly waxed skin.

Does Brazilian wax make you wet?

As for whether Brazilian waxing makes you wet, there is no definitive answer. Some women say that the sensation of having their pubic hair removed is arousing, while others find it to be uncomfortable. If you're considering getting a Brazilian wax, we suggest you do some research to see if it's right for you.

How much does a Brazilian wax hurt on a scale of 1 to 10?

Brazilian (9/10)

Pain Level: Brazilian waxing is often considered the most painful type due to the extreme sensitivity of the area involved. Tips: Consider using a numbing cream (consult with your esthetician first). Recovery: Sensitivity may last 2-3 days. Avoid hot baths and exercise for 24 hours post-wax.

How long does a Brazilian wax last before stubble?

As a general rule of thumb: a Brazilian wax lasts around three weeks before stubble appears. That all depends on your hair growth cycle – we'll explain more below. By the end of 4 to 6 weeks, you'll notice your hair is grown out, and it's time for another session.

What is the disadvantage of Brazilian waxing?

Ingrown Hairs & Irritation: Brazilian waxes can come with some unpleasant (or even painful) side effects like ingrown hairs, skin redness and irritation without the proper preparation or after-care.

What is proper etiquette for getting a Brazilian wax?

You will need to wear adequate clothing when you go for a Brazilian wax. For instance, if you have a romper on, you would have to take it off. If you feel uncomfortable being naked, there is no need to worry as the esthetician will guide you and make sure that you are comfortable.

What hurts most about a Brazilian wax?

"Patients tell me that the most painful areas for waxing are also the most sensitive, especially in the pubic area," Dr. Ciraldo says. Hair around the genitals and bikini line tends to be thicker than on other areas of the body, requiring more force to yank, thus, causing more pain.

Can you be too hairy for a Brazilian wax?

Nope, your pubic hair is not too long to wax. Hair too long is far better than hair that is too short. Pubic hair needs to be at least the length of a grain of rice or ¼ of an inch long.

How painful is your first Brazilian wax?

The pain can range from uncomfortable to “OMG” on the pain scale. But the first time is usually the worst. The pain level you experience during a Brazilian wax depends on your pain tolerance, skin sensitivity and hair thickness.

Are you exposed during a Brazilian wax?

When you are ready you will be given privacy to remove everything from the waist down and lie on a clean table area with clean paper or sheets. Although the thought of being totally exposed in front of a stranger may make you blush, much like your gynecologist, our wax pros have seen it all before.

How can I make my first Brazilian wax less painful?

How to Prepare for a Bikini Wax
  1. Make Sure You're Hairy Enough.
  2. Moisturize and Exfoliate.
  3. Consider a Pain Medicine.
  4. Avoid Caffeine.
  5. Apply Numbing Cream.
  6. Take a Deep Breath.
  7. Hold the Skin Tight.
  8. Avoid Exercise.

Is there a numbing cream for Brazilian wax?

No Scream Cream is an FDA approved topical numbing cream containing 20% benzocaine. When used properly No Scream Cream will ease the discomfort of waxing between 50-80%. No Scream Cream can be used on all areas of the body, including bikini area, lip, eyebrows, underarms and legs.

What is a Brazilian wax and is it embarrassing?

These popular waxes involve removing almost (Brazilian) or all (Hollywood) your pubic hair. The hair between the buttocks is also removed so you'll need to remove your underwear and bring your knees up towards your chest. However, some therapists will work around you if you feel uncomfortable.

Why do I pee weird after a Brazilian wax?

Well, here is your answer. “Apparently, the swollen lips (due to the hot wax) get in the way of the stream causing it to undulate.”

How soon can you get oral after a wax?

Avoid showers and baths for the next 24 hours to give your skin time to heal. Also, wait a day after your wax before you have sex. That includes oral sex.

Will I bleed during Brazilian wax?

Pinpoint Bleeding happens when hairs are removed from the root, not just broken at the surface. It's common with coarse hair after a Brazilian or underarm wax. The best part? It's a good sign!

How to pose for a Brazilian wax?

Diamond Shape is the most popular option in Brazilian wax positioning. In this position, you lay on your back, put your heels together, and slightly pull your legs up. This helps with working on both sides during the waxing.

Does Brazilian wax include bum?

A Brazilian wax is a waxing service that completely removes pubic hair from the front, upper thighs, and butt. Based on your personal preference, you can leave a small strip of hair, a triangle, or square on the front.

Who Cannot get a Brazilian wax?

Unfortunately, we will not be able to perform a Full Monty Wax/Brazilian on you if you are 5 months pregnant or more and have not ever received a Brazilian Wax, or have not been waxed for over a year. It is much too much for skin that is already sensitive and engorged.

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