What not to do during a full body massage?

Author: Florence Steuber  |  Last update: Friday, July 11, 2025

Here are some examples of what you, as the client, should never do! :
  • Don't joke if this is a “happy ending" massage or make any sexual comments. ...
  • Don't get sexually excited, it's inappropriate. ...
  • Don't break wind. ...
  • Avoid talking too much. ...
  • Don't use your phone. ...
  • Don't be under the influence of alcohol or drugs.

What areas are off limits during a massage?

These include direct manipulation of the spine, the front of the neck, and any visibly injured or inflamed areas.

Is it normal to remove all clothes for a massage?

It's a good idea not to remove all of your clothing unless your therapist has requested you do so. Removing too much clothing can create an uncomfortable situation for both you and your massage therapist. Another important thing to avoid during a massage is making noises.

What is inappropriate during a massage?

Unwanted Touching: Any contact that feels inappropriate or goes beyond what is necessary for the massage. This includes touching private areas without explicit consent. Suggestive Comments: Making remarks that are sexual in nature or comments that make you feel uneasy or objectified.

What is the etiquette for a full body massage?

Take off only as much clothing as you are comfortable removing. If you don't want to remove your clothing, wear clothing that will be comfortable during the massage and will allow the massage therapist to touch and move the areas of your body you expect will need to be massaged.

90% of Novice Therapists Make This HUGE Massage Mistake!

What is the most pleasurable type of massage?

The Most Relaxing Types of Massages
  • Swedish Massage. The most common type of massage therapy, Swedish massage will help to relax you with a combination of specific movements including: ...
  • Hot Stone Massage. Another very relaxing type of massage is the hot stone massage. ...
  • Chair Massage. ...
  • Aromatherapy Massage.

Do you turn over during a massage?

During the massage, your therapist is likely to ask you to turn over.

What body parts should be avoided during massage?

These are areas of the body where deep, sustained pressure should be avoided because of the structures that lie beneath. Those areas are the anterior and posterior triangles of the neck, suprasternal notch, sternum, axilla, spinal column, umbilical area, inguinal triangle, popliteal fossa, and the antecubital fossa.

Is it rude to fall asleep during a massage?

Massage therapists understand that their clients may fall asleep during a session and do not consider it rude at all. In fact, they often see it as a compliment that their techniques are so effective in inducing relaxation.

How to tell if your massage therapist is into you?

The therapist might seem more flirtatious, and even seductive. You might find the session dwells on personal conversations, instead of focusing on treatment. Changes in body language might not be immediately obvious, but they can indicate a shift in the relationship.

What not to do in a massage?

Here are some examples of what you, as the client, should never do! :
  1. Don't joke if this is a “happy ending" massage or make any sexual comments. ...
  2. Don't get sexually excited, it's inappropriate. ...
  3. Don't break wind. ...
  4. Avoid talking too much. ...
  5. Don't use your phone. ...
  6. Don't be under the influence of alcohol or drugs.

What do I wear to a full body massage?

It is best to wear comfortable, loose-fitted clothing to your treatment. I tend to wear my gym clothing, as it's easy to slip on and off and is super comfortable.

Do you take your bra for a massage?

When I work on the full back, I fold the drape down at the hips. If you're wearing underwear/pants, I might tuck the sheet around the waistband, to protect your clothes from the massage cream (though it does wash out easily.) If you're wearing a bra, I'll work around it.

Can a massage therapist massage my groin?

No worries, your therapist can easily work over the sheet to get to these pesky problem areas. Groin & pelvic pain can stick around for quite some time, so I would always suggest at least three or more sessions of massage to make a difference.

Which part of the body is not commonly massaged?

Points on the body that we do not massage are: The spine, as it can be irreparably injured. The abdomen, especially when it comes to pregnant women or people with stomach and abdominal diseases. The head, when there is an injury or other factors including inflammation and swelling.

Can I ask my massage therapist to massage my breasts?

Therapeutic, full chest and breast massage to support wellness and/or as treatment for medical conditions is currently legal in about 75% of the states within the USA. Breast massage used only to treat medical conditions is legal in several additional states. The client must consent to this treatment.

Why do they say not to shower after a massage?

The temperature of the water can cause your muscles to tense up, which can negate the benefits of massage therapy. The heat can also increase the risk of dehydration. Inflammation may also occur if you are already feeling sore after the massage. Wait at least 1-2 hours before showering or taking a bath.

Should you talk during a massage?

Talking during a massage is a personal preference. Some people find that light conversation helps them relax, while others prefer silence to fully immerse themselves in the experience. Let your therapist know what makes you feel most comfortable.

How should you lay during a massage?

Most of the time, you will lie on your stomach at the beginning of your massage and then transition face-up. If unable to lie face down, your therapist may have you lie on your side. The therapist may use pillows or bolsters to take strain off your lower back and allow you to relax during the massage.

Will a massage therapist massage your inner thighs?

The area of the upper inner thigh, either in front or back, is an area that is also rarely touched. More specifically, the therapist never works within two to three inches of the genital area at the inner thigh, as doing so may evoke sexual stimulation, fear or both.

What body part feels the best in a massage?

The back is one of the most requested areas in any massage. It's where many people carry stress, tension, and discomfort from sitting, standing, or physical activity. Therapists focus on the upper, middle, and lower back to release tightness and improve mobility. The neck and shoulders are another high-tension zone.

Should I take off all my clothes during a massage?

This massage is about you and it's important that you feel comfortable. For some people that means leaving some clothing on. For others, it means taking it (mostly) all off. There is no right or wrong, this is your massage.

What is the 1st rule of massage therapy?

The first rule of massage therapy is to ensure the comfort and safety of the client. This includes creating a comfortable and relaxing environment, using proper techniques and pressure, and communicating effectively with the client to ensure that they are comfortable with the massage.

What is draping optional massage?

During the massage, only the body part that the therapist is working on is uncovered. Your massage therapist will only work on one body part at a time and will never work under the sheets. Massaging the head and neck. While working on the head and neck, the client can have their arms out if they are warm.

Can a massage turn her on?

Spending time exploring each others' bodies is a simple way to build intimacy and increase arousal. Different types of massage have been connected to sexuality for thousands of years. Today, there are a wide variety of different types of sexual massage, including sexual reflexology.

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